Think About it

In an argument or a fight, the artillery used to attack the opposite party can be heavy. The deepest offenses, the ones which directly enter straight on the wounds, are those launched by people in your environment, people whom you spend several hours with.  As they know your path, the problems you have faced, they will hand pick what to say in order to hurt more. In general, this kind of aggression, this one which hurts the most, comes from closest people, best friends, relatives, partners or workmates.

We all have sorrows, we all have regrets. We all have unsuccessful goals, something we hungered  for which did not work out,  perhaps  some unsolved love, an unmatched unilateral passion, a failed selection test or job recruitment… and these closest people know about them. It is natural and normal to make comments about our good and bad moments with the ones around us. Human beings feel the need to disburden their hearts.

The ones who talk a lot about their lives, their desires, expectations and mistakes seem to forget that these very confessions one day will return in the form of injuries. These will go even deeper into their hearts due to the fact the insults are coming from those who were considered friends or family once. 

Solutions? I do not have any. 

I am here only verifying there is no exit, there is no other way given the human beings’ characteristics. Therefore, keep your feelings, comments and secrets to yourself, or maybe, who knows, talk about them to your cats and dogs instead. Your pets will always be by your side, no matter what. Also they will never use this piece of information to tread on your weaknesses.